Sunday, June 29, 2008

From a tyke to a "normal" valedictorian



From a tyke to a‘normal’ valedictorian
By Aly Shea
Record-Journal staff MERIDEN


— When asked to describe himself, the first words out of Platt High School valedictorian John Sullivan’s mouth were not about academics, but about playing pickup basketball with friends.“I’m not all academics; I’m a normal person,” said Sullivan, 18. “Everyone thinks straight A’s means straight nerd, but I’m normal, my friends are normal, and we do normal stuff.”And Sullivan, who will graduate June 17, said the only thing that bothers him right now is being in class, because it means he can’t be out playing basketball and hanging out with his friends.When he’s not in his own class, he can sometimes be found in the classroom of his father Terrence Sullivan, a Platt social studies teacher.In fact, John Sullivan is a student in his father’s modern European history class, but neither said they find it awkward.“He’s been very mature about it,” Terrence Sullivan said of his son. “He takes his work very seriously.”And even the principal, Timothy Gaffney, noticed that John Sullivan has grown a lot in his four years.“He was a little tyke coming in, but he’s leaving a grown man,” Gaffney said. “We’re proud of him; he’s done a good job.”Sullivan’s teacher through four years of Latin and one year of English, Roger Mc Quiggan, called Sullivan a standout student.“He’s an English teacher’s dream,” he said. “He reads everything. … He’s always got something in his hands to read, and he’s excelled in math and science, too. He’s a real renaissance kid.”And it’s his love of knowledge that Sullivan’s girlfriend, Kelly Mc Donough, also a Platt senior, said separates him from his classmates.“John didn’t get good grades because he wanted to be valedictorian, but because he really has a hunger for learning,” she said.Sullivan will be studying physics at Boston College this fall and is considering engineering, but keeping an open mind.He’s most excited about taking classes in a wide variety of subjects, especially one that will have him reading a lot of philosophy, from Socrates to the Bible to Marx.Regardless of what he studies, he says he can’t wait to watch Boston College football. Sullivan has already purchased his season tickets and is excited to see the game against rival Notre Dame this fall.While he enjoys traveling and wants to see the world, his travel plans for freshman year are much more modest: he plans to make the trip from Boston to Bryant University in Providence, R.I., to see Mc Donough when he can.While he credits Mc Donough for helping him mold his fashion sense — she dresses him, he joked — he credits his parents, Susan and Terrence Sullivan, with helping him sustain his love of reading and academic success. His mother said they always encouraged him in school and read to him a lot as a child, until he was old enough to read on his own.“Some people’s parents reward them for good grades; mine just expected them,” John Sullivan said.But academics are the last thing on Sullivan’s mind this week as he prepares to graduate — he’s thinking about having a fun summer and spending time with his friends. He said his best high school memories are being made right now with his group of friends.“We’re all so close,” he said. “I can call them up anytime to just hang out or play basketball or whatever

Saturday, June 28, 2008

O'Brien Students got healthy dose of Tolerance




06/27/2008
O'Brien students got healthy dose of tolerance
By Patricia Villers , Register Staff

ANSONIA - Mary Parady teaches English as a second language and career development at Emmett O'Brien Technical High School. She also teaches tolerance, respect and understanding.
She received a $2,500 grant from the Southern Poverty Law Center to participate this past school year in a nationally known program, Teaching Tolerance. The Southern Poverty Law Center, of Montgomery, Ala., combats hate, intolerance and discrimination through education and litigation. Parady used the funding to broaden an exchange program between O'Brien students and students from High School in the Community in New Haven. The project to teach tolerance stems from two incidents several years ago at O'Brien when students were charged with hate crimes for bullying. Parady just completed her third year of teaching at O'Brien, and the second year of teaching tolerance. "This year, the students had anonymous pen pals with High School in the Community," she said. "They enjoyed it. In their own way, they realized they're not so different" from students at an urban school. The two schools also came together through a program with Long Wharf Theatre in New Haven. She commended the theater's staff, in particular the work of Jacob Stoebal, resident education fellow, who worked with students based on their reading of Toni Morrison's play, "The Bluest Eye." In April, students from both schools attended a production of the play and a "talk back" after the performance. Students met with the director and actors, Parady said, and posed questions about the play and the multicultural issues Morrison addressed. Stoebal had students incorporate their shop skills into the production. "Students from hairdressing designed the hairstyles for the characters," she said. Drafting students designed plans for two houses as they would appear for the families in the play. "Kids learn by doing," she said. The theater will continue the tolerance education next year, Parady said. Another program featured Aaron Washington, associate dean of students at the multicultural center at Southern Connecticut State University. "He worked with the freshmen on diversity issues," Parady said. Training will continue to start with students when they enter O'Brien as freshmen. "It's not just about diversity. It's (about) the bullying and the name calling," she said. "People just want to be comfortable when they go to work or to school." Parady said her peers at O'Brien have supported her efforts. "We can't change the world, but maybe (we can) just a little," she said. "I'm just hoping that I inspired (students) to look and think outside the box."



For information, visit www.teachingtolerance.org. Patricia Villers can be reached at pvillers@nhregister.com.

Sunday, June 15, 2008

Family Updates

I have been a bit remiss in my blogging responsibilities, so I will catch you up on the latest Highlights and family news.

Congratulations goes out to Claire Sullivan for completing her BS in Political Science from Lehigh University! A wonderful accomplishment and she's off to Galway, Ireland soon! You GO Girl!

Get well wishes to our dear Uncle Dan Kirby! He is now recovering at home from his triple bypass surgery!
Love and prayers to you Dan! Get well soon!

John Sullivan will be graduating soon and attending Boston College in the fall!
Also Colleen Parady and Patrick Sullivan too will be graduating from high school!
Congrats all of you GRADS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ryan will be returning from his travels on July 2nd.

A Happy Father's day to all of my brothers and uncles!! And of course my dearest Dad
Harold C. Parady in heaven!!

Save the date July 27th for our Reunion at The Greens Clubhouse!! 2pm till closing!!!

All the BEST! Only 8 more days till the end of school!!!!!!!!!!!